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How do I meet someone from Steade safely?

Keep chatting on Steade until you’re comfortable, and remember you never have to share your number. For the first meeting, choose a public place, tell a friend where you’ll be, and get there and home on your own. Never send money or investments to anyone you’ve met here, however good the reason sounds.

Before you meet​

  • Take your time in chat. There’s no deadline for meeting. Steade’s chat stays open until one of you ends it.
  • Keep your details to yourself until you’re ready. You don’t need to share your number, address or workplace to arrange a first meeting.
  • Remember what verification means. Every member’s identity has been checked, so you know they’re a real adult. It doesn’t tell you their intentions.

On the day​

  • Meet in a public place for the first time.
  • Tell a friend where you’ll be and who you’re meeting.
  • Get there on your own, and make your own way home.

If something feels wrong​

  • You can leave at any time. You don’t owe anyone a second meeting.
  • End the conversation, block or report from the menu at the top of the chat.
  • If you’re in danger, call 999 for the police or 995 for an ambulance. Steade isn’t an emergency service.

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